恋爱婚姻的百科全书

enc-003为什么要孩子？Why have children? enc-004为什么不生孩子？Why not have children?

enc-009婚前怎样谈钱？How do we talk about money before marriage? enc-010嫉妒从什么时候变成控制？When is jealousy control? enc-011可以查看对方的手机吗？Can we check each other's phones? enc-012一个想要孩子，一个不想，怎么办？What if one person wants children and the other does not? enc-013家务怎样分，才不是天天记分？How do we divide housework without keeping score? enc-014婚前协议是做什么用的？What is a prenuptial agreement for? enc-015怎样和姻亲划清边界？How do we set limits with in-laws? enc-016什么叫情感出轨？What is an emotional affair? enc-017婚后住在哪里，怎样定？How do we decide where to live after we marry? enc-018一方已有孩子，婚前要谈什么？What if one of us already has a child? enc-019性欲不一样，怎样谈？How do we talk about a mismatch in sexual desire? enc-020一方带债进婚姻，怎么办？How do we handle debt one of us brings into the marriage? enc-021什么时候该去见伴侣咨询师？When should we see a couples therapist? enc-022婚前要不要谈过去的感情？How do we talk about past relationships before we marry? enc-023婚后用联名账户、分开账户，还是两者都要？Joint account, separate accounts, or both? enc-024一方要和父母同住，另一方不同意，怎么办？What if we disagree about living with parents? enc-025大吵之后怎样修复？How do we repair after a serious fight? enc-026隐私和隐瞒有什么区别？What is the difference between privacy and secrecy? enc-027一方要换城市或出国，怎么办？What if one of us wants to move cities or countries? enc-028节日时间怎样分给两边的家人？How do we share holiday time between two families? enc-029父母反对这门婚事，怎么办？What if parents oppose the marriage? enc-030婚礼的钱谁出，怎样谈？How do we talk about wedding money and who pays? enc-031有人长时间不想过性生活，怎么办？What if one of us does not want sex for a long stretch? enc-032日常说话里，怎样认出轻蔑？How do we notice contempt in daily talk? enc-033出轨之后，婚姻还能继续吗？Can a marriage continue after an affair? enc-034生育能力和什么时候要孩子，怎样谈？How do we talk about fertility and when to try for a child? enc-035一方想开放关系，另一方不愿意，怎么办？What if one of us wants an open relationship and the other does not? enc-036婚前怎样谈心理健康？How do we talk about mental health before we marry? enc-037要不要出钱养对方的父母？What if one of us is asked to support the other's parents? enc-038孩子出生后，谁暂停工作，怎样定？How do we decide who pauses work after a child is born? enc-039离婚冷静期是什么意思？What does a cooling-off period mean before divorce? enc-040已经同居，一方仍不想结婚，怎么办？What if we already live together and one of us still does not want to marry? enc-041性同意是什么意思？What is sexual consent? enc-042伴侣之间的边界是什么？What is a boundary in a couple? enc-043什么是筑墙式拒谈？What is stonewalling? enc-044什么是煤气灯效应？What is gaslighting? enc-045什么是爱情轰炸？What is love bombing? enc-046什么是安全型依恋？What is secure attachment? enc-047什么是焦虑型依恋？What is anxious attachment? enc-048什么是回避型依恋？What is avoidant attachment? enc-049什么是联结邀请？What is a bid for connection? enc-050什么是修复尝试？What is a repair attempt? enc-051离婚和分居有什么区别？What is the difference between divorce and separation? enc-052什么是离婚后的扶养费？What is alimony? enc-053什么是重组家庭？What is a blended family? enc-054离婚后的约会是怎么一回事？What is dating after divorce? enc-055什么是异地恋？What is a long-distance relationship? enc-056什么是分开居住的伴侣关系？What is living apart together? enc-057订婚是什么意思？What is an engagement? enc-058什么是冷婚？What is a cold marriage? enc-059什么是感情里的冷战？What is the silent treatment? enc-060婚姻里的道歉是什么意思？What is an apology in a marriage? enc-061说谎之后，信任怎样重建？What is trust after a lie? enc-062夫妻怎样谈色情内容？How do couples talk about pornography? enc-063婚姻里的异性朋友怎么看？What about friends of the opposite sex? enc-064什么是社交媒体上的嫉妒？What is social media jealousy? enc-065婚礼和婚姻有什么区别？What is the difference between a wedding and a marriage? enc-066夫妻文化背景不同，指的是什么？What are cultural differences in a couple? enc-067信仰不同的夫妻要面对什么？What if a couple does not share a faith? enc-068一方生病，婚姻要面对什么？What happens when a spouse becomes ill? enc-069婚姻里的照料是什么意思？What is caregiving in a marriage? enc-070夫妻一起退休会改变什么？What does retiring together change? enc-071成年子女离家之后，婚姻会怎样？What changes when adult children leave home? enc-072什么是空巢？What is the empty nest? enc-073带着孩子再婚是什么情况？What is a second marriage with children? enc-074婚后改姓是什么意思？What is a name change after marriage? enc-075新婚之夜，人们通常期待什么？What are wedding night expectations? enc-076求婚是什么意思？What is a marriage proposal? enc-077什么是一夫一妻制？What is monogamy? enc-078什么是财务出轨？What is financial infidelity? enc-079什么是事实婚姻？What is common-law marriage? enc-080蜜月是什么意思？What is a honeymoon? enc-081什么是冲突风格？What are conflict styles? enc-082批评和抱怨有什么区别？What is the difference between criticism and a complaint? enc-083什么是婚姻里的防御？What is defensiveness? enc-084什么是转向对方？What is turning toward? enc-085什么是爱情地图？What is a love map? enc-086什么是婚姻里的喜爱与欣赏？What is fondness in a marriage? enc-087什么是夫妻间的僵局？What is gridlock? enc-088什么是长期解不完的问题？What is a perpetual problem? enc-089什么是二人约会时间？What is a date night? enc-090什么是家庭心智负荷？What is household mental load? enc-091什么是看不见的劳动？What is invisible labor? enc-092什么是把父母拉进夫妻的事？What is in-law triangulation? enc-093婆婆和岳母在婚姻里指什么？What is a mother-in-law in a marriage? enc-094公公和岳父在婚姻里指什么？What is a father-in-law in a marriage? enc-095什么是独生子女夫妻？What is an only-child couple? enc-096孝敬父母，夫妻要面对什么？What is filial piety for a couple? enc-097彩礼和嫁妆，夫妻要谈什么？What is a bride price or wedding gift between families? enc-098什么是两地工作的婚姻？What is a two-city career in a marriage? enc-099谁的事业优先，怎样谈？Whose career comes first? enc-100不孕不育对夫妻意味着什么？What is infertility for a couple? enc-101流产之后，婚姻要面对什么？What is a miscarriage for a marriage? enc-102收养孩子，夫妻怎样决定？What is adoption as a couple decision? enc-103对是否终止妊娠意见不同，怎么办？What if we disagree about ending a pregnancy? enc-104怀孕期间的性，要谈什么？What about sex during pregnancy? enc-105产后，夫妻要面对什么？What is the postpartum period for a couple? enc-106睡眠怎样影响婚姻？What does sleep do to a marriage? enc-107喝酒怎样变成婚姻里的问题？What if drinking becomes a marriage problem? enc-108赌博怎样变成婚姻里的问题？What if gambling becomes a marriage problem? enc-109吃饭和说话时看手机，怎么看？What about phones at the table? enc-110因公出差对婚姻意味着什么？What is work travel for a marriage? enc-111什么叫不再爱了？What does falling out of love mean? enc-112什么叫为了孩子不离婚？What does it mean to stay for the children? enc-113什么是灰色离婚？What is gray divorce? enc-114怎样吵架才算公平？How do we fight fair? enc-115吵架时的暂停是什么意思？What is a time-out in a fight? enc-116什么叫在婚姻里感到孤单？What is loneliness in a marriage? enc-117什么是室友式婚姻？What is a roommate marriage? enc-118什么是不必通向性的身体亲近？What is physical affection without sex? enc-119什么是拒绝一次靠近？What is the rejection of a bid? enc-120结婚之后，友谊会怎样？What happens to friendship after marriage? enc-121宽恕与和好有什么不同？What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation? enc-122什么是婚姻里的积怨？What is resentment in a marriage? enc-123什么叫唠叨？What is nagging? enc-124什么是情感上的在场？What is emotional availability? enc-125什么是用疏远来惩罚对方？What is withholding affection as punishment? enc-126婚礼誓言是什么？What are wedding vows? enc-127什么是重温誓言？What is a renewal of vows? enc-128结婚纪念日对夫妻意味着什么？What is a wedding anniversary for a couple? enc-129夫妻怎样一起做决定？How do couples make decisions? enc-130家里谁有最后决定权？Who has the final say? enc-131什么是五十一比四十九的决定？What is a 51/49 decision? enc-132成年后搬回父母家，夫妻要谈什么？What if we move back in with parents as adults? enc-133房子写在谁名下？Whose name is the home in? enc-134过年去谁家？Whose family do we visit at New Year? enc-135给对方父母送礼，怎么看？What about gifts to in-laws? enc-136一方带进来的孩子，夫妻怎样分担养育？How do we parent a child from a prior relationship? enc-137什么是继父母？What is a stepparent? enc-138继兄弟姐妹起冲突，夫妻怎样面对？What is stepsibling tension for a couple? enc-139对是否继续不孕治疗意见不同，怎么办？What if we disagree about infertility treatment? enc-140生病之后的性，要谈什么？What about sex after illness? enc-141更年期对夫妻意味着什么？What is menopause for a couple? enc-142怎样谈睾酮水平偏低？How do we talk about low testosterone? enc-143发现对方有婚外情的第一周，要面对什么？What is the first week after an affair is discovered? enc-144分手后不再联系，是什么意思？What is no-contact after a breakup? enc-145什么是反弹式恋爱？What is a rebound? enc-146为了孩子与前任同住，是什么意思？What does it mean to live with an ex for the children? enc-147什么是分房睡？What are separate bedrooms? enc-148什么叫调情？What is flirting? enc-149什么是情感切断？What is emotional cutoff? enc-150什么是与原生家庭界限不清？What is enmeshment with a family of origin? enc-151什么是属于两个人的仪式？What is a couple ritual? enc-152什么是夫妻的每周商量？What is a weekly meeting for a couple? enc-153怎样开口谈一件难事？How do we start a hard conversation? enc-154什么是从自己说起？What is an I-statement? enc-155什么是情绪淹没，什么时候先不要谈？What is flooding, and when not to talk? enc-156什么叫事事往自己身上想？What is taking things personally? enc-157什么是自以为知道对方在想什么？What is mind-reading in a couple? enc-158遗产和这笔婚姻是什么关系？What is inheritance for a marriage? enc-159离婚这件事，夫妻怎样看待告知孩子？How do we tell the children about a divorce? enc-160倒班对夫妻意味着什么？What is shift work for a couple? enc-161承诺和化学反应有什么区别？What is the difference between commitment and chemistry? enc-162什么是合得来？What is compatibility? enc-163约会时的危险信号是什么意思？What is a red flag while dating? enc-164搬到一起住是什么意思？What does moving in together mean? enc-165约会谁买单？Who pays on a date? enc-166什么是恋爱中的专一约定？What is exclusivity? enc-167什么是把关系说清楚？What is defining the relationship? enc-168什么是突然失联？What is ghosting? enc-169什么是吊着不说清？What is breadcrumbing? enc-170什么是说不清的关系？What is a situationship? enc-171见家长是什么意思？What is meeting the parents? enc-172把对象介绍给自己的孩子，是什么意思？What is introducing a partner to one's children? enc-173婚前同居是什么意思？What is living together before marriage? enc-174孩子跟谁姓？Whose last name do the children take? enc-175什么是教养方式起冲突？What is a parenting-style clash? enc-176孩子的信仰，夫妻要谈什么？What about religion and the children? enc-177移民和这门婚姻是什么关系？What is immigration for a marriage? enc-178夫妻共同的朋友和个人的朋友有什么区别？What is the difference between couple friends and individual friends? enc-179什么是用讽刺扎人？What is sarcasm as a jab? enc-180什么是当着孩子的面吵架？What is fighting in front of children? enc-181什么是经济控制？What is financial abuse? enc-182什么是查看对方的位置？What is location tracking in a couple? enc-183什么是共用密码？What are shared passwords? enc-184私下结婚和盛大婚礼有什么区别？What is the difference between eloping and a big wedding? enc-185婚后第一年要面对什么？What is the first year of marriage? enc-186七年之痒是什么意思？What does the seven-year itch mean? enc-187中年对夫妻意味着什么？What is midlife for a couple? enc-188一方住院时，谁来做决定？What are hospital decisions for a spouse? enc-189离婚这件事，怎样看待告知已成年的子女？How do we tell adult children about a divorce? enc-190丧偶之后再约会，是怎么一回事？What is dating after a spouse dies? enc-191为什么不该先问该多久过一次性生活？Why is how often to have sex the wrong question? enc-192吵完之后先等一等，是什么意思？What does it mean to wait after a fight? enc-193什么是写下来，而不是当面说？What is writing instead of talking? enc-194什么叫不再努力维持了？What does it mean to stop trying? enc-195什么是试分居？What is a trial separation? enc-196什么是调解人？What is a mediator? enc-197什么是高冲突的离婚？What is a high-conflict divorce? enc-198什么是平行育儿？What is parallel parenting? enc-199什么叫太早介绍新对象？What is introducing a new partner too soon? enc-200什么是不能让的底线？What is a deal-breaker?