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Love & Marriage University

A public relationship literacy platform co-created by ordinary people

We learn knowledge, work, money and management at school, but rarely learn systematically how to express affection, face rejection, build boundaries, handle conflict, enter marriage, or accompany children through adolescence.

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Love & Marriage University

One hundred lessons you can follow, plus an encyclopedia and a library of love and marriage.

If you are unsure, look up one entry. If you have lived it, add what you saw. If you want to learn, start at lesson one.

01100 lessons

Expression, boundaries, conflict, marriage, parents, and starting again — learned as a course. No degree. No commercial scorecard.

02Encyclopedia of love and marriage

Only questions of love and marriage. Marrying, not marrying, children, remarriage, parting, and living alone — one entry each. Look it up, or add what you have lived.

03Library of love and marriage

One hundred books worth reading, to start. Open one and see what it argues, what it can answer, and what it cannot. Later, an AI tutor can take you further into the key points.

Why This University

We learn many kinds of knowledge, yet rarely learn how to love—or how to be loved.

Many people grow up and realise: I know many things, but I do not know how to love well or how to recognise and receive another person’s love; I have been in relationships, but I do not understand intimacy; I became a parent, yet still do not know how to talk with my child about love.

Five Colleges

Enter the Five Colleges

Parents CollegeLearn to talk with children about feelings, attraction, rejection, safety, and boundaries—and care for ourselves in the middle years as we face marriage, caregiving, loss, and new beginnings.

Men’s CollegeFor men: learn to express yourself, practise respect and responsibility, honour boundaries, and grow a mature capacity for intimacy.

Women’s CollegeFor women: learn self-respect, clear boundaries, choice, honest expression, and how to protect yourself inside a relationship.

Youth CollegeFor young people: start learning love with liking someone, saying no, holding a boundary, and knowing whom to ask for help.

Couples CollegeFor partners and married couples: turn conflict, the division of labour, plans for the future, and repair into a shared practice.

100 Courses

Start with these ten.

No.001 Why Can’t Love Rely on Feelings Alone?From passionate love to companionate love: How can we tell that love is still present? And how do we recognise a relationship that has gone without a response for too long?No.002 How Can You Voice Dissatisfaction Without Starting a Fight?Turn an angry verdict into observable facts, feelings, needs, and a concrete request that can be discussed.No.003 If She Didn’t Say “No,” Does That Mean She Consented?Silence, freezing, and lack of resistance are not consent. Consent must be free, clear, specific, and reversible.No.004 How Can You Express Interest Without Crossing a Line?Say what you feel while leaving the other person free to choose. An honest invitation should never become pressure for an answer.No.005 How Can You Say No Without Humiliating Someone?Turning down a relationship is not a verdict on a person’s worth. Clear, brief, and respectful is often kinder than vague hope.No.006 How Do You Keep Your Self-Respect After Rejection?Acknowledge the loss without turning one answer into a verdict on your whole life. Self-respect returns through facts and steady action.No.007 Why Is “Being Good to You” Not the Same as Respect?Care asks what I want to do for you. Respect also asks whether you want it—and whether you are free to say no.No.008 What Is Emotional Blackmail?Not every tear, request, or disappointment is manipulation. The key question is whether emotion is repeatedly used to remove your freedom to choose.No.009 How Can You Rebuild the Facts After a Misunderstanding?Separate what you observed, what you inferred, and what affected you—then check whether you are discussing the same event.No.010 How Can You Say Clearly What You Need?A need is not an order and should not be a guessing game. Name what matters, then make a request that both people can discuss.

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This is not one expert’s course. It is a university built by ordinary people together.

What do you want to learn? What experience, lesson, surprise, or method can you pass on to others? You may also add a lived experience to an encyclopedia essay, or suggest a book the library should include.

Submit a Question / Experience / Lesson